This one I actually considered not posting but I realise that in this world you can be more and more open now. I just wanted to experience what it would be like and it was an interesting day to say the least.

Now, it happened in Korea; I remember I was living and volunteering with a group of friends from all around the world in Broussard in a cafe and when I was there I remember going out to a club. Me and my friend were thinking “hey, let’s try and get free drinks”, one of my friends was a busty German woman who is kindhearted and hilarious said we should get dressed up. So we agree and the adventure begins! I imagine it looked like when all the robots from Power Rangers were to get together as all the women congregated around us and start dressing this up and making this. We have on fake boobs and nice make up, they did a wonderful job. Me and my friend looked in the mirror and I have to say we looked damn good! After that we put on a pair of heels, and at first I was a little worried about what people would think but then eventually I start relaxing.

Once we walked in to the bar we became the centre of attention. My friend and I would have women and men coming up to us asking if they can grab our arse – some of them didn’t even ask! It was then I started to realise that I can’t bend down correctly without exposing everything when picking things up and then slowly my perspective started to change. It was a fun experience and we got a couple of free drinks but it’s also helped me to understand what it is like to be a woman… sometimes you can get subjected to things that you don’t want to, get people’s attention that you don’t want. I had a couple of creepy guys come up to touch me and stuff like that. A few days after some of the women told me that its actually a regular thing. I realise it is tough sometimes, I was quite happy to get that understanding and I realise that you should really treat women with respect and love and kindness. Never touch them without their permission.

That’s the reason why I like getting to know other insights for me. I thought it would be a fun night with my friends but it had a philosophical touch. Respect women and I really hope all men do the same, you can get a lot of respect too. I love you all and I hope you enjoy this post, and I’ll see you in the next one!